It's all about being okay with the relationship and exchange of goods and sexual favors. One may do more in one aspect, but the other may make up for it in one way or another.
When you buy someone a drink - reciprocate. Get them back another time, or later that night. Soon enough you'll be in drink debt. Hand jobs for diddles, cunnilingus for blow jobs, it works for everything.
When the balance of reciprocation is off, the relationship suffers. Count it.
You never reciprocate my sexual favors and I'm just about sick of it! I have returned to your blog, and in my google reader no less. (I hope I planted a seed. I'm sure you've brushed it off but if you give it a try it will change your life).
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